Do you really believe that the behaviors named in the article are “every little thing” white people do? Making a sexist or racist joke, presuming that people with good grammar are special, or designating someone as “not a good fit” because they don’t share white boy culture is not a “little thing.” These are exactly the kinds of behaviors that get black people blamed for being “whiny” or complaining, or “overly sensitive,” which is precisely what you’re doing here. People who society overtly/covertly deem as “lesser” are always the ones who are supposed to excuse or swallow the insults so as not to hurt white people’s feelings. So, your feelings are hurt, you’re offended, and, once again, someone belittles the feelings and experiences of black women and decides they’re not legitimate. You’re the reason the article was written.

Rather than complain about “every little thing,” STOP DOING “every little thing.” I don’t know how old you are, but if you’re old enough to read and resond to an article, then you’re also old enough to have some self awareness.