Super Mrs. C.
1 min readMay 5, 2023

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I can't agree. I am black, and when I was in my early twenties I had one of those Ugly Duckling/Swan magical things happen to me. I guess I just grew into my face. I'm not saying this because I'm bragging; I'm saying it because it was true. It didn't matter, white, black, male, female; everyone gave way. I got free meals, free cab rides, free everything else, and offers for jobs for which I KNOW I wasn't qualified (I didn't take any of them; I'm not a fool.) Even children stared. I'm a nice person, but even if I hadn't been, I saw what kinds of behavior pretty people got away with.

Perhaps had I been white the privilege would have extended further. I can't know. All I can say is that I didn't deserve the benefit of the doubt that people often gave me. There is definitely privilege to being pretty. You don't have to be smart; you don't have to be kind; all you have to do is to be pretty, and the good things fall into your lap.

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Super Mrs. C.
Super Mrs. C.

Written by Super Mrs. C.

Retired teacher. Humorous essayist about Life. Serious essayist about politics and “race.” Aspiring world saver. Cat mama. We can do better than this.

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