Speak for yourself. Perhaps you believe that because that’s how YOU wake up every morning. I’ve lived long enough to know who’s helping me and who isn’t. There are enough offenses extant that I neither have to seek, invent, or imagine them. Neither do I make excuses for the people who commit them by pretending that they must have meant something else. If in your young years you have experienced fewer offenses than the rest of us, then, I’m happy for you and your charmed life, but don’t equate your history with mine nor prescribe what my “outlook” should be.