Uh oh, Pax. You've forgotten your place! You gave white people a command rather than a politely-worded request, and they're now blaming you for doing what they do. They don't realize that their responses are proving the rule. If they don't get "asked nicely" to do something, then they take their imaginary allyship ball and go home. I don't know how many people will read this response, but they need to.